Oh Em G!
Posted by Syllable in Sex on 11. Jan, 2010 | 6 Comments
During a time where the actual existence of the G-spot is hotly debated, I’d like to discuss another controversial topic. Like men, women also can ejaculate, enhancing and intensifying their sexual pleasure. Knowing how to trigger the experience can allow women to expand their capacity for pleasure and experience the amazing ecstasy female ejaculation can [...]
What Would You Do If A Family Friend Came To Your Party With His Mistress
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 17. Sep, 2009 | 3 Comments
To a certain extent, our society condemns men and women who have extra-marital afffairs, calling people who have affairs nasty names like cheaters, adulterers etc.
However, there is also a certain hand-off approach to the situations when we know that one partner is less than faithful. It’s a personal matter between the couple, we often say. [...]
Let’s Talk About Masturbation
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 10. Sep, 2009 | 11 Comments
“I don’t get why women masturbate. Just call. I want to help you in your time of need,” one the men said in a forum where an article about masturbation was posted.
It got me thinking about masturbation: why women masturbate, how they learn to do it, whether they would be willing to talk to their [...]
What Makes You Feel Feminine and Sexy?
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 03. Sep, 2009 | 12 Comments
For the past couple of weeks, I’ve been so busy writing that some of the things I usually do to make me feel feminine and attractive fell by the wayside.
I sort of expected this, because the project was big, the time to do it was short, and deadlines were firm. No chance for a do-over [...]
What Do You Expect From Advice Columns?
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 27. Aug, 2009 | 3 Comments
Do you ever read advice columns in the newspapers and magazines? Would you take advice from a newspaper columnist or even a relationship blogger and apply it to your life?
Research done by the Soul City Institute and released recently has found that advice columns in South Africa’s print media are giving advice that puts people’s [...]
Be Honest. Is Sexual Satisfaction Really Easy To Achieve If You Just Talked To Your Partner About What You Want?
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 20. Aug, 2009 | 7 Comments
A Malawian NGO called Pakarachere is about to launch a national OneLove campaign in that country, and one of the issues we’ve been discussing online is sexual satisfaction.
Specifically, what we’ve started talking about is why couples sometimes fail to find sexual satisfaction with each other. And the issue that keeps coming up is that men [...]
Sexual Skill Vs Emotional Loving
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 13. Aug, 2009 | 6 Comments
One of the beliefs sold by romantic novels is that the hero would fall in love in love with the virgin heroine, and because of their deep feelings for each other, their first bout of love-making would go off effortlessly. Myth also has it that once they have both declared their love for each [...]
He Said I Was Beyond Repair
Posted by Guest Contributor in Sex on 06. Aug, 2009 | 7 Comments
I had a boyfriend whom I love dearly, he had the most adorable son & we got on like a house on fire. We were together all the time and his family practically adopted me as I was the “first girlfriend who made sense,” only to figure out months later that he didn’t have the [...]
Learning to have good sex
Posted by Guest Contributor in Sex on 05. Aug, 2009 | 6 Comments
I have been sexually active for roughly the past 9 years yet it is only in the past year or so that I have really felt in control of my own sexuality. This shift was precipitated by several factors including:
A sudden realisation that good sex is my personal responsibility
That I have a right to an [...]
Let’s Talk About Sex
Posted by Damaria in Sex on 30. Jul, 2009 | 8 Comments
My 11-year daughter and I recently had a long discussion about the changes her body goes through during puberty and sexual choices.
It was not the first time we’d had a discussion about sex, so I did not expect to feel awkward about any of the topics raised. Strangely though, I did. Here are some of [...]
